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#29 09/29/2024

How to Take Control of Your Life: Declare: I AM The Executive of My Life!

Taking control of your life can be a transformative journey. In this blog post, I’ll share five key principles that have empowered me to declare daily that I am the Executive of My Life. Embracing this mindset can lead to profound changes across all areas of your life. Whether you run a business or provide services to one, these principles can help you establish clear boundaries, make sound decisions, and ultimately take charge of your destiny.

1. I Hire and I Fire: You Are Your Own Human Resources

This bold declaration emphasizes the power of choice in your relationships. As the Executive of Your Life, you have the authority to decide who you surround yourself with. This principle revolves around setting boundaries and allowing only those who contribute positively to your growth into your life.

When you think of your life as a business, every relationship becomes a business decision. Just as successful companies acknowledge and promote valuable team members, you should recognize those who uplift and support you. Conversely, if someone is detrimental to your well-being, it's time to consider letting them go. Conduct a personal “employee review” of your relationships—determine who is helping you thrive and who might be holding you back. Remember, it’s better to have a few meaningful connections that enrich your life than numerous acquaintances who drain your energy.

2. I Delay Making Impulse Decisions: You Are the CFO

In business, critical decisions often require careful consideration and time. Similarly, as the CFO of your life, it’s essential to delay impulse purchases and major life decisions. This allows you to assess the long-term impact on your “financial health.”

Before making significant purchases, set a waiting period—ideally 24 hours—to give yourself the chance to evaluate whether this decision aligns with your values and goals. This practice not only helps you manage your finances more effectively but also cultivates a sense of discipline that extends beyond monetary decisions.

3. Money Are My Employees: Treat Them Well

A pivotal lesson I learned is to treat money as your employees. If you nurture and respect your financial resources, they will work for you and grow. Conversely, poor financial habits can lead to depletion and chaos.

When you embrace your role as the CEO of your finances, start budgeting and monitoring your spending. Just like a successful business invests in its team, you should invest in your financial literacy. This proactive approach ensures your “employees”—your financial resources—stay with you and multiply, rather than leave you scrambling.

4. Schedule Yourself Off and Schedule Others On

One of the greatest advantages of becoming the Executive of Your Life is the control you gain over your schedule. If you’re employed, you allocate time to fulfill your work obligations, and if you have a family, you dedicate time to them. However, it’s equally important to carve out time for yourself.

Make it a habit to schedule personal time, just as you would for work or family. This practice not only rejuvenates you but also allows you to be present for others. By investing time in your well-being and nurturing your relationships, you create a supportive network that fosters mutual growth and success.

5. I Am in the Business of Life

Viewing your life as a business fundamentally shifts your perspective. When you see everything around you as either an asset or a liability, it becomes easier to make choices that align with your goals. Nobody sets out to run a failing business, and the same should apply to your life.

While setbacks are inevitable, declaring yourself the Executive of Your Life means you are committed to growth and improvement. Surround yourself with assets—positive influences, supportive relationships, and beneficial habits. By consciously removing distractions and liabilities, you can focus on achieving your goals and enhancing your life.

Conclusion: Take Charge of Your Life Today!

Begin your journey to becoming the Executive of Your Life by assessing the people and resources in your life. Identify who or what are assets that support your growth and who or what are liabilities that hold you back. Review your financial habits and focus on enhancing your income while being mindful of your spending.

Take time for yourself and make time for others. This holistic approach will empower you to take control and navigate your life with purpose. Remember, being the Executive of Your Life is about making intentional choices that lead to fulfillment and success.

Embrace these principles, and you’ll find yourself not only taking charge of your life but also thriving in all aspects. Start today, and watch as your life transforms into a successful venture you can be proud of.

From the author:

To whomever you are, I write that this publication will encourage you to subscribe and receive updates as we dive into the thirteen successful principles to move life from a roller coaster to less than a ripple. And remember, doing so will be worth your wage.

I look forward to reading your comments below.

Todd

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